King of Kings Lutheran Church

2993 MacDonald St. Oceanside CA       (760)757-2525

A member of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America -- ELCA

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Weddings at "The Gathering Place"

Elegant and economical weddings are an outreach

 ministry of King of Kings Lutheran Church.

"The Gathering Place" opened in

April 2010 with a seating capacity

of up to 200 guests for a wedding reception. 

You have enough to worry about for your wedding.  Let us take care of the location for both the ceremony and the reception. 

The cost of holding your wedding at King of Kings Lutheran includes:

  • Sanctuary Rental
  • Reception Hall Rental
  • Table and Chair rental
  • Officiant (Minister)
  • Musician (organist or guitar)
  • Event Coordinator (2 pre-event meetings, up to 4 hours of phone consultation, email access and up to 7 hours for the day of your wedding).
  • Catering support (you must provide the caterer but our kitchen will be able to support them fully)
  • Pre-marital counseling
  • Customized wedding service including printed programs
  • All the necessary setup and cleanup

The cost for our wedding package is $4,500.  A $500 non-refundable deposit is required to reserve the date.  A $500 refundable damage deposit is required.

Active duty Military receive a $500 discount.

Early bird reservations made during 2010 receive a 15% discount.

The fees will be reduced for wedding parties under 100.  Please inquire.

If you are interested in having a wedding here at King of Kings Lutheran Church, please email us at weddings@kingofkingslc.org


FAQ -- Frequently Asked Questions

  1. How many events will be planned for each day?  One -- we will only book one wedding per day so your day can truly be your day.
  2. Can we use flash photography and video? Yes, We do ask that the photographer and videographer be discrete during the wedding ceremony but they are certainly allowed.  In fact, during certain times of the day, a flash is necessary within our Church because of the large stained glass art across the back wall.
  3. We are not particularly religious, must we have a Christian wedding?  In helping each couple create their personalized wedding ceremony, the Pastor takes into account your religious background  and desires.  The format of the ceremony will be Christian in nature and will contain prayers, a passage from the Bible and a short reflection from the Officiant.  If you are interested in having an inter-religious wedding, most of our Pastors are open to sharing the ceremony with an Officiant of another religion.  Please inquire with your specifics prior to reserving a date.
  4. Our wedding includes blended families, is that a problem?  No, every wedding ceremony is customized for your particular situation.  We can work with you to include everyone you want in the ceremony or honor loved ones who have departed.  Just mention it to the Pastor on your first meeting.
  5. This is a second marriage for both of us.  Will you perform the ceremony?  Of course, we are here to help you create a new and beautiful future not condemn or work through your past.  If you have children from previous marriages, we suggest that they are part of the ceremony.
  6. We want a few non-traditional items in the wedding.  Is this allowed? Please speak with the Pastor and the Event Coordinator about your request.  The church has played host to several "different" weddings including the following:  Bride's brother was her "Best Man" and stood at her side instead of with the Groomsmen, Bride was accompanied down the aisle by her mother because her father was deceased, Groom was escorted to the altar by the grandmother who raised him, Children from previous marriages were the bridal party and read prayers of blessing at the ceremony,.....and many more!
  7. Can we have a champagne toast?  Yes -- you are allowed to serve beer or wine (including champagne) with your meal at the reception if your caterer has the proper licenses and training.  As a safeguard for you and the Church, you must purchase event insurance to serve alcohol at the reception. 
  8. Can the flower girls toss rose petals during the Bride's entry? Yes, they can sprinkle your pathway with silk rose petals that we provide.  Our white carpet is easily stained so real petals are not allowed but we have found that by using a very high quality silk petal and using a mixture of colors that the result looks just as festive as the real petals.

Vendors -- we are currently compiling a list of preferred vendors for our couples -- please email us if you are interested in partnering with us.

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